Dear Abby has answered a woman in a sticky situation: the woman's sister is in porn, but is using the ill-gotten gains to pay for the woman's kids' education - how can she return the money without insulting the porny sis? Answer: shut the fuck up about the porn and let the money continue to do good things. Yay, Dear Abby's ghostwriters! Now, if only Dear Abby can reach more judgmental people and tell them to shut up about other people's choices, too, the world will be a better place.